How To Pick Up Girls

If you really want to learn how to pick up girls, you need to be willingly to take the time and effort necessary to do so. It may not happen overnight. It may not happen exactly on your time line, but believe me, the wait will be worth it. There are a few steps you can take to help your journey.

Just like anything else in life, if you truly want something you have to be willing to work for it. And once you put that effort in, it will be sweeter in the long run if you had to work for it, versus having it handed to you on a platter.

Here are the top three things I recommend all guys do if they want to be successful in picking up girls.

1. Self Confidence. Now don’t get me wrong, every single person on the planet has some bit of insecurity in some area of their life. That is normal. And in fact, that can be endearing. Sometimes the clincher that makes you fall in love with someone is seeing that they are human and fallible. So when I say self confidence, I mean the belief, deep down in your core that you are valuable and you deserve to be loved. You deserve to have a wonderful girl in your life and you deserve to be treated a certain way. If you aren’t there yet, go get some professional help that will guide you to this state and then you will be ready to take the next step.

2. Create a Life You Love. I want you, before you even consider bringing a woman into your world, to work on creating the best life you can. What I mean by that is, make sure you have a job you like — at least a little — instead of one you despite. Make sure your time, energy and money goes toward the things in life that make you happy. For instance, if you have a huge house that feels empty and lonely and forces you to work 60 hours a week, you might want to consider whether you would be happier in a smaller place that costs less and frees up your time to do things you enjoy and that enrich your life.

3. Strive Toward La Bella Figura. Now the Italians got it right. La bella figura means presenting your best face at all times. They know that not everybody is born gifted with good looks, but that hasn’t stopped the world from believing Italians are extremely attractive as a nation. The secret is that they make sure to take pains with their looks. They may not be what is considered handsome but they give an appearance of attractiveness by the way they have meticulous grooming and take the time and effort to dress in a neat and tidy way. What I mean by that is that they may save to buy one beautiful shirt that fits them to a tee and looks great on and then they make sure they wear it with perfectly fitting jeans and freshly polished shoes. THey never look sloppy or unkempt. As a result, they end up being more attractive than a handsome man dressed as a slob.

So if you really want to pick up girls, you need to shore up your self esteem, create your dream life and take the time to look your best. Trust me, it works.

Bill Preston can teach you the skills you need to be a PUA. The original article can be found here: How to Pick Up Girls.

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